Information for Children
& Young People

If you are a young person and have been affected by sexual violence/abuse, or you are a parent supporting a child who has experienced sexual abuse, RASASC is here for support.

What is Sexual Violence?

Sexual violence is any unwanted sexual act or behaviour.

It can happen to anyone and it is never your fault.

It includes:

  • Sexual abuse: Any act that forces or manipulates someone into sexual activity against their will, or when they are too young to consent.
  • Sexual assault: This includes any unwanted physical sexual contact, like touching, kissing, or rape.
  • Sexual harassment: Unwanted comments, messages, images, or attention that is sexual in nature.

If it made you feel uncomfortable, scared, pressured, or unsafe, then it is wrong.

 

What to expect with our support

Robins Story:
I was sexually abused by someone from school.                                    I was confused… why did it happen? Was it my fault? 

I withdrew from friends, I felt shame and was flooded with emotions. I plucked up the courage to tell my mum what happened. She helped me to access support from RASASC, where I was given the opportunity to open up without my mum in the room, which made me feel safe and more relaxed. I completed an assessment and was then referred for counselling, which started a few weeks later. With the support from my therapist we agreed that my mum would stay in the waiting room and if we felt it would be helpful then we would bring her into the room. I felt in control and I spoke about my experience when I was ready. I was taught coping strategies to help manage my emotions and we focused on re-building my self-esteem.

“Thanks to RASASC I have my sparkle back, as I now understand that it wasn’t my fault”.

 

Information and Guidance

More information

What our service users say

My ISVA has supported me more than I ever thought they could. If it wasn’t for RASASC I probably wouldn’t be here today. They have helped me to do coping methods and breathing and gave me the confidence to be open and honest with people. Anytime I phoned or text they were there to help me. They made me realise that I am not the guilty one. I am not a victim; I am a survivor.

Female, 36

I have felt well supported by RASASC and have found the service easily accessible and has helped me process my emotions around trauma/SA. I would highly recommend this service. It has meant so much to have a safe space to be heard over these last few months. Thank you for your patience, your insight and for helping me to process some difficulty moments and find my voice again.

Female, 30

My ISVA must be commended for their professional skills in dealing with vulnerable victims, and for their kind and sensitive approach to their role as an ISVA. I couldn’t have coped without their support and the sense they gave me of feeling heard. They advocated on my behalf and I’m so grateful for that.

Female, 60

My counsellor has helped me shift the blame and shame of my abuse to the other side and helped me breathe and feel lighter.

Male, 54