It’s common for misconceptions about sexual abuse and sexual violence to shape how people think, talk, and respond to survivors. These myths can create barriers to seeking support, increase feelings of isolation, and sometimes lead to victim-blaming attitudes.
At RASASC Cheshire & Merseyside, we want to challenge these misunderstandings and replace them with accurate, compassionate information. Below are some common myths and the facts that help set the record straight.
Myth: Sexual violence is usually committed by strangers.
Fact: Most survivors know the person who harmed them, such as a partner, friend, colleague, or family member.
Myth: If someone didn’t fight back, it wasn’t really assault.
Fact: Many people respond to trauma by freezing or feeling unable to move or speak. This is a natural survival response and does not mean consent was given.
Myth: It’s easy to tell if someone has been affected by sexual abuse.
Fact: Survivors may show a wide range of responses—or none that are visible. Trauma affects everyone differently.
Myth: False allegations are common.
Fact: Research consistently shows that false reporting is rare. Most survivors are not believed or report many years after the incident due to fear, shame, or trauma.
Myth: If it happened a long time ago, it shouldn’t still affect someone.
Fact: The impact of trauma can last for many years. People may experience effects long after the event and deserve support whenever they are ready.
Myth: Only certain types of people are affected by sexual violence.
Fact: Sexual violence can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, sexuality, ethnicity, disability, or background.
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